You felt you were compared as a child. Probably that has left you with a feeling of not being unconditionally accepted But it’s never too late. Maybe she did it to help you have a role model to follow.
Now as an adult start accepting yourself the way you are.
Try writing the following positive affirmation 21 times/day for a period of 3 months and experience a remarkable difference.
I admire my exclusive position. Or I have an exclusive position in my world.
Note : An appropriate and well designed affirmation has the power to dramatically change your life for the better.If, however, a particular affirmation does not resonate with you, please consult your local therapist or online healer.